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Guard Your Thoughts!

Only let positive thoughts in…

Don’t Let Your Guard Down

My brother owns a contracting business that largely centers around land restoration.  Because I work with him, I’ve been in some pretty interesting places and done some pretty interesting things.  I’ve worn waders and walked across a wetland, rode a 4 wheeler while ‘spraying the edges’ at a controlled burn, and unfortunately got a Ranger stuck in a very wet marsh, more than once!  I’ve planted hundreds of trees, walked through weeds that were way over my head, and sprayed herbicide from a punt boat my brother was ferrying.  However, my favorite activity is caring for the trees in our tree farm.  But one time this summer, I wasn’t in the tree farm for over two weeks.  Upon returning, it was overrun with 3-4′ weeds!  It didn’t take me long to realize you can’t let your guard down when you’re caring for trees.

We Have to Guard our Thoughts!

This is also true in our thinking.  We have to guard our thoughts.  The world comes at us hard: it is constantly giving us something to worry about.  However, we don’t have to listen! Romans 12:2 (ESV) states,  “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”  When everything seems hopeless , we must  fill our minds with something hopeful.  Isaiah 26:3 (ESV) states: “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” Did you catch that? PERFECT PEACE. We can believe God when He says, “I will be your God throughout your lifetime—
until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you.” (Isaiah 46:4, NLT)

Things to do today: (Click on links above for easy access.)

  1. Read another blog called ‘Hold Fast to Peace.’
  2. Listen to the song, ‘You Say’ by Lauren Daigle.

 

Watch out for the Potholes

Watch out for the Potholes

I push mow my elderly neighbor’s lawn.  It’s a beautiful, thick lawn that loves to grow and takes about 45 minutes to mow.  I enjoy being outside so I really don’t mind.  But I do mind that there are around 4-5 holes in her yard that are difficult to see because of the thick grass.  Invariably, I step in at least one each time I mow.  My ankles do not enjoy this added feature of lawn care! They end up hurting me all week long. It would help if I’d  pay more attention and watch for the holes, but they seem to continually  sneak up on me. I wish someone would have told me to watch out for the potholes.

Likewise, if we’re not careful, life can trip us up.   Negative thoughts have a way of sneaking up on us, and before we realize it: worry and fear have moved in.  When this happens, our own thoughts hold us down.  They keep us from living a peaceful life.  God wants to help with this.  “Don’t be like the people of this world, but let God change the way you think…” (Romans 12:2, CEV) Trusting God in our difficult situations is a great place to start.  When we look to him, we begin to feel his peace.  “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!” (Isaiah 26:3, NLT). Life offers plenty of chances for worry to sneak into our thoughts.  God has an answer for each one.  Don’t worry about anything, but pray about everything. With thankful hearts offer up your prayers and requests to God. Then, because you belong to Christ Jesus, God will bless you with peace that no one can completely understand. And this peace will control the way you think and feel. “(Philippians 4:6-7, CEV) My advice: watch out for the potholes!

Things to do today:

  1. Call out to God as soon as you start to worry.
  2. Read a similar blog called ‘It’s Okay, You Can Let Go’ and listen to songs ‘Just Be Held’ and ‘Fear is a Liar.’

 

The Gifts I Want to Give

Present with Twinkling Lights: The Gifts I Want to Give
The Gifts I Want to Give

It’s that time of year again when my mind searches for the perfect Christmas gifts.  Truth be told, all the money in the world won’t buy the gifts I want to give.  I’d like to give my friends and family one more day with the ones they are missing: their husband, their dad, their mom, a special friend, a precious child. I’d like to give my friend perfect health-to completely chase out the cancer invading her body.  A friend’s mom keeps forgetting-I’d like to give her a whole day of laughter, love, and joy.  One friend’s husband has a health crisis.  I’d like to give her a  worry-free day.  To the ones who are hurting in unseen ways, I’d like to give you peace.

I can’t give the gifts I want to give,  but God can. He wants to give you comfort. “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles…” (2 Corinthians 1:4, NIV) He wants to give you peace. I am leaving you with a gift–peace of mind and heart…” (John 14:27 NLT) He wants to give you strength. “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” (Psalm 46:1 ESV) Incredibly, he also wants to give you life. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16 NIV) On the first Christmas so long ago, God gave the best gift ever: Jesus.  With this perfect gift, you not only get another day…you get the gift of forever.

Things to do today:

  1. Accept the freely-offered gifts from God.
  2. Read a similar blog called ‘The Sun Will Shine Again.’ Also, listen to songs ‘One More Day’ and ‘Take Courage.’

Find the Higher Ground

My family planned a week-long outing at one of our favorite campgrounds.  Upon arrival, I discovered the road leading into the campground was under six feet of water.   There is a road that leads out of the campground, but when I checked, it was flooded too. What to do now?  Four campers were on the way and we needed to find higher ground.  As it turned out, there was an access road at the back of the campground.  Fortunately, it was at a higher elevation.  When the campers arrived, I was uneasy about staying.  Despite my reservations, my brother informed me all the water would be gone in a day and the sun would even dry the water near our campers.  To my delight, he was right. It turns out that camping on higher ground has its benefits.

God wants to lead us to higher ground too.  He knows the world will bring us trouble, but he wants to replace the problems with peace.  “I have told you this so that through me you will have peace.  In the world you’ll have trouble, but be courageous-I’ve overcome the world!”  (John 16:33 ISV)  When we find ourselves facing a flood, we need God to guide us to higher ground.  “The Lord says, ‘I will guide you along the best pathway for your life.  I will advise you and watch over you.'” (Psalm 32:8 NLT)   Unexpected and unpleasant circumstances can invade our days.  But even during the most challenging times of our lives, God’s plan for our good is unchanging.  “‘Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed,’ says the LORD, who has compassion on you.” (Isaiah 54:10 NIV)  Let’s stay in peace when the waters rise.  And by all means, let’s find the road that leads to higher ground.

A Healthy Choice

Sitting in an airport in the early morning hours is a perfect place to people watch.  You can see all walks of humanity, and they come with a plethora of moods and a multitude of attitudes.  Watching kids is especially entertaining because they are not stressed with traveling; they are dancing in the open areas, climbing on chairs, and giggling from the sheer joy of living.  The adults however, often have a harried look.  I lazily watched the craziness of the airport until I was unexpectedly thrust into the fray when tornadoes derailed most of the flights to my connecting airport.  What should I do?  Based on what I was witnessing, I had options.  I could yell, throw a tantrum, or get angry at the airline personnel.  But how could that possibly help the situation?   There simply HAS to be a better way.

Actually, adding a little ‘fruit’ to my diet during this trying time would be a perfect response.  From Galatians 5:22-23, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”  When life gets messy, let’s not take our frustrations out on the people around us, but instead, let’s choose to be kind.  Otis Redding used to sing, “Try a little tenderness…”  Even when the situation is out of control, we don’t have to be“Do not let kindness and truth leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.” (Proverbs 3:3) It’s good to remember that everyone is fighting some kind of battle.  We can deliberately choose to live a lifestyle where we build each other up.  “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor…”  (Romans 12:10)  When things aren’t going the way you want them to, do something just for you. Grab some fruit, because that’s always a healthy choice.

 

 

 

 

Hold Fast to Peace

Picture this: late evening in an overcrowded parking lot, snowy and cold, with 2,000 impatient people trying to leave at the same time.  There was high potential for angry words and honking horns.  Since we wanted to keep the good feeling of the season, my sister-in-law and I waited patiently in a long line of cars.  To entertain ourselves, we started making jokes as we watched drivers cutting in front of other cars and forcing their way through to the exits.  It went like this: “They clearly never went to kindergarten-because that’s where you learn to take turns.”  Or, “Maybe they only had half-day kindergarten.” You know what?  As silly as our jokes were, it worked.  We didn’t get upset with the choices people were making.  We held fast to peace.

It was always God’s plan for us to live in peace. Romans 14:19, “Therefore let us pursue the things which produce peace and the things that build up one another.”  It’s such a busy time of year and we all have more on our ‘to-do’ list than there are hours in the day.  We need to remember that everyone is feeling the pressure of this busy season, and be deliberate about showing kindness, staying patient, and being thoughtful.  “And if it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”  (Romans 12:18) In this season of giving, let’s remember another of God’s wonderful gifts: peace.  He said, “Peace I leave to you; my peace I give you.”  (John 14:27)  Here’s what I’m thinking, since God took the time to present us with this beautiful gift of peace, we ought to make plans to keep it.