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At a Crossroads…

At a Crossroads
At a Crossroads

Crossroads Community Church in Norwalk, Ohio is celebrating 10 years of being in their current building.  Ten years ago they were at a crossroads-in order to move ahead,hurdles would have to be scaled.  Just the financing for such a project is staggering.  Then add the careful planning that had to go into the big decisions that were made: location, size, and placement of church and parking lot on the land. After that comes the gazillion (Is that even a word?) other decisions that would have been made starting from the ground up.  Just thinking about it overwhelms me!  One thing I know for sure: they built the church on a firm foundation.  How do I know?  It’s still standing.

We all come to a crossroads in our lives where we need to make a decision.  Do we want to carry on as we are: in worry, stress, and pain? Or do we want to start building something new with a firm foundation?  Jesus is the Rock we should build on.  “Look! I am placing a foundation stone in Jerusalem, a firm and tested stone. It is a precious cornerstone that is safe to build on. Whoever believes need never be shaken.” (Isaiah 28:16, NLT) In the storms of life, our ‘house’ will stay standing because God himself watches over it. “The Lord protects you; the Lord is a shelter right by your side.” (Psalm 121:5, HCSB) We don’t have to live in a house filled with anxiety;  we can  live in a house filled with peace.  God’s already dropped off the welcome gift on the doorstep. “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”  (John 14:27, NIV) So the only question is: will we pick it up?

Things to do today:

  1. Accept the peace that God is offering.
  2. Read a similar blog called ‘Hold Fast to Peace’ and listen to songs ‘Prince of Peace’ and ‘Perfect Peace.’

Stay in Peace

Stay in peace: Covered bridge in fall.
Stay in Peace

Friday evening I found myself in Cleveland traffic during rush hour.  What was I thinking?  This I knew: I needed to stay in peace.  People were definitely in a hurry. There were speedy drivers switching lanes like they were in a Nascar race.   Some drivers pushed for the outside lane and others flew in from the onramp.  I wasn’t in the mood for a  race and dodging the incoming traffic also seemed like a crazy choice.  So I went with the flow: I ignored the cars that zipped through all three lanes, didn’t worry about the stop and go in the right hand lane, and steered clear of the fast lane.  My drive to Pennsylvania in the middle lane that night was so much easier when I didn’t worry about what everyone else was doing.  Keeping my peace (and singing at the top of my lungs) made the drive a pleasant one.

We need to keep our peace at all times.  When we spend our days  worrying about what everyone else is doing, we lose our peace.  Let’s face it, people often do things that upset us, annoy us, or make us angry.  We need to stay focused on God so we can stay in peace.  “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!” (Isaiah 26:3 NLT) Wouldn’t we like to sit down and have our bodies and our minds at rest?  Troubling thoughts bring us down.  They are too heavy to carry alone. THAT’S when we need to turn our thinking over to the one who can handle it all.  Come to me, all who are tired from carrying heavy loads, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28 GWT) Wouldn’t it be nice to sit and relax without any worries?  Let’s stop the overthinking, because I’m pretty sure the couch is calling…

 

Things to do today:

  1. Drop your cares on God’s doorstep.
  2. You can also click on the blue lines above for an uplifting song and another blog about being positive: Shoulders and It’s Okay, You Can Let Go.

 

Hold Fast to Peace

Picture this: late evening in an overcrowded parking lot, snowy and cold, with 2,000 impatient people trying to leave at the same time.  There was high potential for angry words and honking horns.  Since we wanted to keep the good feeling of the season, my sister-in-law and I waited patiently in a long line of cars.  To entertain ourselves, we started making jokes as we watched drivers cutting in front of other cars and forcing their way through to the exits.  It went like this: “They clearly never went to kindergarten-because that’s where you learn to take turns.”  Or, “Maybe they only had half-day kindergarten.” You know what?  As silly as our jokes were, it worked.  We didn’t get upset with the choices people were making.  We held fast to peace.

It was always God’s plan for us to live in peace. Romans 14:19, “Therefore let us pursue the things which produce peace and the things that build up one another.”  It’s such a busy time of year and we all have more on our ‘to-do’ list than there are hours in the day.  We need to remember that everyone is feeling the pressure of this busy season, and be deliberate about showing kindness, staying patient, and being thoughtful.  “And if it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”  (Romans 12:18) In this season of giving, let’s remember another of God’s wonderful gifts: peace.  He said, “Peace I leave to you; my peace I give you.”  (John 14:27)  Here’s what I’m thinking, since God took the time to present us with this beautiful gift of peace, we ought to make plans to keep it.

Sleep in Peace Tonight

sunset-over-mtsI’m thankful I live in the ‘Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave.’  The privileges we get from living in the United States far outweigh the number of challenges we face.  I can’t help thinking about all the men and women who sacrificed their time, their families, and sometimes their lives to allow us to live in peace in this great country of ours.  ‘American Soldier,’ Toby Keith’s song expressing the thoughts of the military, may say it best.  “Beside my brothers and my sisters I will proudly take a stand… I’m out here on the front lines, so you can sleep in peace tonight…”  With a grateful heart, I say thank you to the military for defending and protecting the United States so we can live in peace.

We need inner peace too.  But where can we find it?  It’s found in trusting God.  “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:7) Every day there is something new that tries to steal our peace.  As soon as a problem comes, we need to turn it over to God.  “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” (Isaiah 26:3) Wouldn’t you like to live without anxiety or stress?  Wouldn’t you like to have no worries at night?  You absolutely can!  Give your cares, your problems, and your fears to God.  Then, “When you lie down, you will not be afraid; when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet.”  Tonight when you turn off the lights, you can turn off your restless thoughts too.  Breathe deeply and relax, because it’s going to be a peaceful night.

 

 

 

There’s a Better Way

blog Why botherWhy do we waste any time worrying?  Winston Churchill said he heard a story about a man who on his deathbed said he had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which never happened.  Isn’t that the truth?  Why do we lose sleep fretting about things we can’t change?!?  Here’s a sample: We can’t change someone’s mind, we can’t make money appear in our bank accounts, and we can’t make someone do the right thing.  Yet we still spend time worrying about it!   Jesus said in Matthew 6:27, “Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?”  He went on to say, “Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.  Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Today can have its fair share of problems, so we need to address them as we are able.  But let’s not waste our precious time, energy, and emotions thinking about the challenges that could happen tomorrow.

Thankfully, we can do two things instead of worrying.  First, we can pray. From Jeremiah 29:12, “Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.” And from Philippians 4:6, Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” And second: we can have a big bowl of ice cream.  Here’s a few suggestions: Cookie Dough, Butter Pecan, or Heath English Toffee.  Was it a really stressful day? Then go a little crazy and throw a cherry on top.  I wish I had time to recommend more flavors, but alas, there’s something in the freezer calling my name.

Guarded by Peace

Use this for blogTrail headAs Christians, we’re called upon to be more like Jesus.  Most of the time, we do this by focusing on His love.  And that’s the right way to start.  Jesus said in Matthew 22:37-39, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and all your soul and with all your mind,” and “Love your neighbor as yourself.”  Those commandments are a big undertaking in any life, and we must continually pursue them, but today let’s focus on another character trait of Jesus.  The disciple Matthew tells a story about when  Jesus and the disciples were crossing over the Sea of Galilee.  He said in Matthew 8:24, “Without warning, a furious storm came up…”  Sound familiar?  Had any furious storms come up in your life?  Have any of them come without warning? In this case, the disciples panicked, and surprisingly, many of them were experienced fisherman!

Before we judge them too harshly, let’s look at our own response to storms:  worry, stress, anger.  Maybe all three?  But we are modeling our lives after Jesus, so we need to look at His response to storms.  The complete verse in Matthew 8:24 states, “Without warning, a furious storm came up on the lake, so that the waves swept over the boat.  But Jesus was sleeping.”  Who does that?  Here’s the answer: The person who sleeps through the storms of life is a person at peace.  Jesus, despite all circumstances happening around Him, remained peaceful.  Isaiah 26:3 says, “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”  Despite the raging storms around him, Jesus remained at rest.

So let’s follow Jesus’ example and agree with Philippians 4:6, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, that transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”  I don’t know about you, but I want my heart ‘guarded by peace’.