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It’s Time to Change the Station

Sunrise over a Mountain
It’s Time to Change the Station

I wish I would have know it was time to change the station when I couldn’t fall asleep the other night.  Instead, I started thinking  negative thoughts about myself and didn’t quit.  ‘I could have done more to help a student,  I should have called a friend the day before, I should have watched what I said to someone…’ The list of my problems went on and on.  According to my nighttime musings, I couldn’t do anything right.  But instead of trying to think of something else, I let the negativity play over and over in my mind.   Although my thoughts weren’t doing me any good,  I stayed on that station for hours, eventually falling into a restless sleep.

We live in a negative world, and it’s easy to get caught up in it. But that’s not God’s desire for us.  God wants us to continually renew our minds.  Renewing our minds means we let go of all the lies that hold us back and grab hold of the truth. “Don’t become like the people of this world. Instead, change the way you think. Then you will always be able to determine what God really wants—what is good, pleasing, and perfect.” (Romans 12:2, GWT)   God wants us to live a positive and uplifting life. And because he lives inside us, we can overcome negativity.  “For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power and love and of a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7, NHEB)

Let’s replace the dark thoughts with good thoughts-ones that bring peace, joy, and strength.  “Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.” (Philippians 4:8, NIV) When the thoughts we’re having are all negative, that means it’s time to change the station.

Things to do today:

  1. Change the way you think.
  2. Read a similar blog called ‘Think Good Thoughts’ and listen to songs ‘Redeemed’ and ‘Break Every Chain.’

 

This is Only a Season

Sunlight over a snowy landscape.
This is only a season.

Tonight as I drove home in the late afternoon the sky in front of me appeared gloomy and gray.  The barren trees lined the snow-covered road.  Freezing rain is in the forecast and the ominous clouds seem to agree.  If I let myself, I could easily hide under the covers until winter moves on.  But one thing I know, weather has a way of changing, sometimes quite quickly.  In Ohio we may have 3 inches of snow, then the following day have temperatures in the 50’s with a little sunshine.  I can get impatient when waiting for spring, but year after year it proves faithful, spring indeed does come.  I must remember this is only a season.

We often hope for change in our lives too.   Perhaps we’d like a better job or improved health.  Maybe we need a change in our relationships or in our finances.  When we’re in a tough season, we can cry out to God.  He is always listening. “Our LORD, we belong to you. We tell you what worries us, and you won’t let us fall.” (Psalm 55:22, CEV)   When the clouds are blocking our view of what’s ahead, we can trust God is planning to ‘change the weather’.  “I will bless you with a future filled with hope–a future of success, not of suffering.” (Jeremiah 29:11, CEV) Hang tough, just like the cold winters of Ohio, a change of season is coming.  “Look, the winter is past, and the rains are over and gone. The flowers are springing up, the season of singing birds has come…” (Song of Solomon 2:11-12, NLT)  Although the sky is dark today, keep looking up, because this is only a season.

Things to do today:

  1. Tell God your troubles, worries, and fears.
  2. Read a similar blog called ‘A New Season’ and listen to songs: ‘Cry Out to Jesus’ and ‘Hope in Front of Me.’

 

The Destination is Just Ahead

Beautiful Clouds: The Destination is Just Ahead
The Destination is Just Ahead

My mom and I took a trip this past week and encountered many obstacles.  It was hard to remember that the destination was ahead.  First, the roads were jammed with traffic.  Second, there was road work being completed and three busy lanes merged into one, creating major slowdowns.  Then, a heavy rain crashed relentlessly against the windshield making it hard to see.  Unfortunately, I took a wrong turn and added an extra hour to an already never-ending drive.  Mom and I were weary when we finally reached our journey’s end.  But amazingly, when we were finally in the place we wanted to be, all the earlier trials faded into the background.

Difficulties can get in the way of our hopes and dreams too.  But we won’t give up, because the destination is just ahead.  “So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.” (Galatians  6:9 NLT) Remember, we’re not traveling this road alone. God says with his help, our dreams are attainable.  “Jesus looked at them and said, ‘With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.'” (Matthew 19:26 NIV) The plan God has for our lives is good, so we can travel with confidence.  “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11, NLT) Let hope arise, because the destination is just ahead.

Things to do today:

  1. Take time to dream.
  2. You can also read another blog called ‘Despite the Obstacles-Keep Going’ and listen to two songs by clicking on the blue lines above: Come to Me and Glorious Unfolding

It’s Not Over Yet

Rainbow Sky
It’s Not Over Yet

It might be putting it mildly to say I’m a Buckeye fan.  Last night as I watched the game I kept thinking of the work I absolutely had to do.  So even though my team was behind, I hit the record button, intending to watch the rest of the game later.  I knew the truth about my team-they may be down right now, but it’s not over yet.  I tried not to think about the game, but as I left work I had to check the score on my phone.  Imagine my delight to see my team had made a huge comeback and won the game by a point!  Later, as I watched the two teams battle, I was able to relax, because I knew how it ended.  But the commentators didn’t-they were so negative towards whatever team was struggling. Why is it easier to talk about the negative than it is to focus on the positive?

When things around us are off balance, we need to remember: it’s not over yet. We don’t have to focus on the negative in any situation because it will just bring us down.  Although it’s easier to look at the negative, we can rely on God’s strength to focus on the positive“…Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.” (Ephesians 6:10 NLT) Sometimes that means we have to tune out the negative people around us and tightly grab ahold of good thoughts.  “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” (Philippians 4:8 ESV)  If we only look at what’s wrong in our lives, we’ll miss all the things that are right. So next time we get caught in the ‘rain’, let’s take the time to look for the rainbow.

Things to do today:

  1. Think good thoughts.
  2. You can also click on the blue lines above for an uplifting song and another blog about being positive: The Comeback and Think Good Thoughts

 

Stay in the Fight

I had fun today watching my niece Taylor play in a 7th grade volleyball tournament.  Even though her team was a bit of an underdog, I still wanted to tell her to ‘stay in the fight.’  Most sports are about process: learning the skills, practicing the skills, and putting them to the test.  Since I’ve watched her team over the season, I can see the improvement they’ve made.  Today they played well and even battled to take a game from the number one seed.  They ended up losing the match, but they are making forward progress!  Although today ended this season, there are still many volleyball games in Taylor’s future.

We have difficult days when we just want to shut down, to mentally ‘check out’ of our lives.  But we also need to stay in the fight.  We can’t look at a difficult time and think our lives are over.  We must remember this is one moment in time, and we have many good days ahead of us.   We may feel alone in this, but that’s just not true! “The Lord is the one who is going ahead of you.  He will be with you.  He won’t abandon you or leave you. So don’t be afraid or terrified.” (Deuteronomy 31:8 GWT) We can ask God to shelter us during the long days and sleepless nights.  “He will cover you with his feathers.  He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protection.” (Psalm 91:4) Even when everything seems to be coming against us, we shouldn’t give up.  Although we can’t always see it, God is fighting battles for us.  “…the Lord your God is the one fighting for you…”  (Deuteronomy 3:22 NASB)

Things to do today:

  1. Ask God to shelter you through this tough time in your life.
  2. You can also click on the blue lines above for these uplifting songs: You’re an Overcomer and I am Not Alone

 

A Bright Day is Coming

My family is camping near Lake Erie and we’re hoping for a bright and sunny day today.  After raining all day yesterday, it looked like today would follow suit.  The skies were overcast in the morning.  There was a light drizzle and absolutely no sun to see in the early morning hours.  We were wondering what we would do inside all day trying to entertain family from 3 years old to age 76.  But midmorning changed our thinking completely.  The sun began to burn away the clouds and by afternoon we had a full sky of sunshine and plenty of fun activities on tap.  It’s amazing how one moment in time can change everything.

Our lives can seem a bit dismal and dreary at times, but God is planning for a brighter day.  He wants to fill us with joy.  “You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand.” (Psalm 16:11) God breaks through the clouds that seem to hang over us.  “When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought joy to my soul.”  (Psalm 94:19)  He doesn’t want us to walk through our days with our heads down, He wants us to be happy.  “These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.”  (John 15:11) Let’s look for the break in the clouds, and rest assured that a bright day is coming.  After all, Jesus said, “I came so that you could have life-indeed, so that you could live life to the fullest.”  (John 10:10) We can stop focusing on the clouds that try to cover our days, and instead, look towards the sun.  After all, with God at the center of our lives, we are guaranteed a bright day is coming.

Suddenly is Coming

My daisies suddenly burst open.  Truthfully, the  buds had been taking shape for days. Most of the year the daisies are just nice green plants, but for a month every year, they are stunning.  The day I planted the small flowers I hoped for the best.  Placing them gently in the ground, I gave them food and water.    On a consistent schedule, I fed them, (not bacon an eggs, but you know, plant food).  Although there were time I wondered if they’d make it, today they’re very strong.  Through the years the flowers have multiplied.  And then suddenly, they are glorious to behold.

Our lives are unfolding in the same way.  It takes a long time to reach our fullest potential.  Fortunately, we have a Master Gardener watching over us.   “Sing about a fruitful vineyard: I, the Lord, watch over it; I water it continually.  I guard it day and night so that no one may harm it.”  (Isaiah 27:2-3)  There are days when we don’t feel it, but our strength is growing.  God is diligent towards His children.  “The Lord will guide you continually, giving you water when you at dry and restoring your strength.  You will be a well-watered garden, like an ever flowing spring.”  (Isaiah 58:11) Waiting takes patience, but there is beauty in our future.  “And this is going to be a glorious unfolding.  Just you wait and see and you will be amazed.  You’ve just got to believe the story is so far from over; So hold on to every promise God has made to us.  And watch this glorious unfolding…”  (Song: Glorious Unfolding by Steven Curtis Chapman)  God’s been planning good things for a long time.  In an instant, we’ll see His beauty unfold.  “I foretold the former things long ago, my mouth announced them and I made them known; then suddenly I acted, and they came to pass. (Isaiah 48:3)

Great Expectations

Hope is the joyful expectation that something good is about to happen.  I couldn’t help thinking about hope while sitting at a graduation party tonight while numerous conversations played around me.  They were filled with plans of the future, loaded with lofty goals and big dreams.  All the seniors were looking ahead, making plans to find their place in this great big world.  The theme throughout the party: an expectation of a bright and exciting future.  God couldn’t agree more.  “‘For I know the plans I have for you’, declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you hope and a future.'” (Jeremiah 29:11)

Here’s good news: God planned for each of us to have hope!  Even on the tough days, we can keep hoping.  “But the eyes of the Lord are on those who fear Him, on those whose hope is in His unfailing love.  We wait in hope for the Lord; He is our help and our shield.  In Him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in His holy name.  May your unfailing love be with us, Lord, even as we put our hope in you.” (Psalm 33:18, 20-22) The beauty of being a child of God is knowing He hears us when we pray.  Therefore, we can be flooded with hope!  “Lord, hear me as I pray; pay attention to my groaning… Listen to my voice in the morning, LordEach morning I bring my requests to you and wait expectantly. (Psalm 5:1-3) Just like the seniors, we can let go of the past and grab onto a bright and exciting future.   Furthermore, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13)

The Sun Will Shine Again

The children’s’ song “Rain, Rain Go Away” is appropriate for my area of the country.  Heavy and continual storms lingered for days, leaving roads closed, fields underwater, and rivers pushing over their banks.  Persistent gray skies affect the temperament of everyone.  There’s an attitude that sneaks in and causes us to want to hide under the covers until the storms pass.  After all, who wants to face another day of running through the rain or fight yet another losing battle with a windblown umbrella?  Watching the rain fly by my window makes me think it will never end.  Fortunately, we all know the sun will shine again.

Similarly, when we’re in the middle of a storm in our personal lives, we can be sure the sun is going to shine on us again too.  The storm will not last, so we keep looking forward.  “So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but what is unseen.  For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”  (2 Corinthians 4:18)   Unfortunately, we are all going to experience storms in our lives.  Fortunately, God is our constant protection.  “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.  Therefore, we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging.” (Psalm 46:1-3) Hold tight in the storm, because God has a beautiful future planned with you in mind“He has made everything beautiful in its time…no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.”  (Ecclesiastes 3:11)  Are there troubled skies around you?  You can put the umbrella away, because it’s time for the sun to shine again.

Spring Ahead

Not surprisingly, we’ve had another shift in weather in northwest Ohio.  We had fierce winds the other night and those winds left behind colder temperatures and an obvious chill in the air.  My furnace is running constantly, trying to keep up with the sudden change.  Despite the cold, when I look out my windows the sun is shining brightly.  And even though there was snow on the ground this morning, I can see the tiniest buds sneaking out on the branches of the trees in my yard.  Spring is on the way.

How many of us, through trials and challenges, have felt like winter has come to stay?  Who’s looking for a change in your circumstances; who’s hoping for spring?  We have assurance that the tough times in our lives are not going to last.  “See! The winter is past; the rains are over and gone.  Flowers appear on the earth; the season of singing has come, the cooing of doves is heard in our land.” (Song of Solomon 2:11-12)  We don’t need to look at all the things around us that aren’t perfect, we can fix our eyes on the things that give us hope.  “Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you.”  (Proverbs 4:25)  Our circumstances will try to hold us back; however, God leads us forward to  beautiful pathways.  “You’re blessed when you stay on course, walking steadily on the road revealed by God.  You’re best when you follow His directions, doing your best t0 find Him. (Psalm 119:1-2)  The Earth is still moving around the sun, so let’s keep moving too.  Let’s leave winter behind and walk into the new season God has planned for us.