A Good, Good Father

sunset-690083_1280I’m thankful for family.  I’m thankful for the sense of belonging, for the closeness, and for the coming together in tough times.  My family lost someone we love this week: a loving husband, a great father, and a fun filled grandpa.  It’s not easy to say goodbye.  It helps to remember the times we spent together and the many ways he made life enjoyable.  My dad was always teasing us, playing little jokes, saying outrageous things to get a reaction.  He had a great sense of humor and was able to laugh at almost anything.  We loved him for that.  Mere words could never capture the essence of my dad, but he was someone I admired, someone I loved, and is someone I will miss dearly.  I’m thankful for the time we had together.

Our God is a good, good Father.  He has so many good things planned for us.  “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights…”  (James 1:17)  One of His perfect gifts: love.  It was always His plan for love to be strong.  In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, “Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.   Love does not delight in evil  but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails.” And continuing to 1 Corinthians 13:13, “And now these things remain: faith, hope, and love.  But the greatest of these is love.” So let’s follow the lead of our Heavenly Father, and love one another deeply, cherishing the time we have together, and creating memories that last a lifetime.  I’m thankful for the perfect gift of love.

18 thoughts on “A Good, Good Father”

  1. My deepest sympathies dear friend!!! To you and your family!❤ love is the best!!! Sending hugs and prayers!

  2. Dearest “D” – what a wonderful tribute to your dad and our heavenly Father. I lit a beautiful pillar candle during mass for your dad, you and your family. The pillar candle seemed so fitting of a choice because it is sturdy and strong just like your purpose-driven faith. May the memories you shared over the years with your dad provide you with warm comfort during this difficult time of transition. Hugs and prayers, my friend.

  3. Finally arrived back in Ohio late last night, D – so very sorry to hear about your dad. Lit a beautiful pillar candle following mass this morning for your dad, you and the family. Thought the pillar candle was a perfect choice because it is strong and steady – much like your purpose-driven faith. Prayers and hugs, dear friend.

  4. I keep reading what you say. It helps me…you say things so beautifully. I appreciate everything you have done for Dad. And taking care if his funeral with such love and strength. I admire you. Julie

    1. Thank you. I am looking forward to the amazing things you are going to do. Your future will be blessed!

  5. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my dad 4 years ago. He may not have been a part of my birth, he was my Dad nonetheless. Find comfort in your wonderful memories. 💖

    1. Thank you for that. We’re trying to find our footing and I know it’s a process. I am so glad God is my anchor.

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